Eventually I would get my stamina back, but after a few more months on a break, I’d be back in the cage again. When she would unlock me, I would be very sensitive, as you can imagine. When we found the Vixskin, foxing became a regular practice and she began keeping me locked for increasingly longer periods, usually several months at a time. After a month or two, you can imagine how difficult it was to hold back. For a while she was unlocking me frequently for sex, but she did not allow me to come. One of the reasons that we got into “foxing” (when the man wears a strapon for sex) was because liked keeping me locked, but also prefers PIV (intercourse). Wow, you have really hit on a tough question, and something that I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. But maybe with enough practice and time I can perform again? I know I'm obviously allowed to call ot off whenever, but again, if I get locked too long, I'll become sensitive and finish too early, and I can't please my girl anymore. Now hypothetically if we had a similar journey as you guys, (being locked up for longer and longer until it eventually becomes permanent), as exciting as it may be, I ask myself, what if I end up regretting it? What if long term chastity was just too much for me and I got so desperate that I either 1, ask for the occasional release, or to stop the locking all together. And you guys make chastity sound really exciting and when I'm finally in a long term relationship, I'll consider suggesting it to her and see where it goes. The reason I ask this is because, I've always been a submissive guy and I love putting my woman's pleasure before my own. If Tom wanted to stop this and go back to normal, do you believe it's possible for him to practice enough to rebuild his 'stamina' and not finish too soon? And be a good lover without the strap you guys use? Now this might sound like a ridiculous question at first. It needs a lot of other things attached to it to make it work in a way that is more enjoyable. I feel like the more I write about this the less clear I make it.

So there’s a sense of this is a new thing which is exciting to both of us. But it’s my favorite because he has learned to use it differently than the other one. I love to hear him moan in frustration when I tell him that it’s my favorite. The bigger Ranger adds another layer to the excitement especially now that my husband has learned to use it well. A lot of my excitement was his reaction to my enjoying the Tex. We have had many years of using the Tex, well before we got into this permanent arrangement. So… now that the Ranger has become his new cock, yes making love feels even better.īUT … if we immediately started off with it, then I don’t think I would enjoy it the way that I do now. And when I started keeping him locked and wearing the Tex, he made sure that I enjoyed our love making even more. All through our marriage he always kept me satisfied in bed. He really was the first boyfriend I had who really took his time to make me satisfied. I am fortunate that my husband and I are well matched in bed. Let’s just say that clumsy or selfish men do not compare to someone who takes the time to read you and who wants to give you pleasure. I have been with men who had different shapes and sizes. Neither Tom or I were virgins when we met. No, it doesn’t work like that outside of the porn movies. Men have this idea that their dicks are some kind of magic wand and all they have to do is stick it inside us and we start moaning… and the bigger the wand the more we like it. But there really is a huge “It’s complicated” attached to that answer. It’s hard to answer questions like this because I get the feeling that men want to hear that yes bigger is better. You know what? I answered this question in several different ways.

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